Thursday, April 4, 2013

Menopause Should Come With Instructions


Do you ever feel like you have experienced most of the unpleasant things surrounding womanhood and fully expect all of those types of things to end when you approach or experience menopause? If you are like me, you will quickly agree that pre-menopause or menopause certainly don't come with a list of instructions. Fifty million women across North America are approaching or experiencing menopause and most have an average of five menopausal symptoms. But no two experiences are exactly alike. I would be interested to see how many of those fifty million women go through it alone and do not consult their doctor to ease some of the discomfort of this stage in life. I can honestly say that because if I am honest here, I would fall under that category myself. I certainly don't recommend going through menopause alone, and consulting a doctor to ease some of the unpleasant symptoms is really a good idea. But if you are like me, you feel that menopause sort of sneaked up on you and the symptoms can be trying at best to deal with.

I was offered a chance to review some products by Poise Feminine Wellness Line and was pleasantly surprised with the results of the products I tested. In fact, The 2013 Product of the Year award-winning Poise Feminine Wellness line was introduced to help women approach these changes with confidence. The line consists of five products designed to help women with feeling fresh, staying cool, and intimacy.


The line of Poise Products includes: Roll-On Cooling Gel and Body Cooling Towelettes provide hot flash comfort. My package included the Body Cooling Towelettes and these were the first products that I tried. These towelettes are hypoallergenic and dermatologist tested and provided instant cooling. Specifically, one of the most amazing things about these towelettes was that they provided an instant cooling sensation. Body Cooling Towelettes offer instant cooling and refreshment. Gently wipe the towelette on wrists, chest or neck to feel cool and comfortable. Featuring a portable, re-sealable package, these towelettes are easy to use anywhere you go. This is a product that would be great for women of any age. Personal Lubricant provides long lasting lubrication to enhance your intimate experience. This lubricant features an easy to use bottle and is made without Fragrance, Glycerin or Parabens. While there are many types of lubricant out on the market, I have to be honest here, and say I had never tried any of those types of products before. I am learning that "dealing with these unpleasant" bodily changes is not something that has to be endured. Poise  has designed wonderful products for women our age who are going through all of these types of symptoms, and these products really help comfort during this stage in life. After trying the personal lubricant, I can wholeheartedly recommend this product and I feel sure my husband would have no complaints as well. All I wanted to ask myself was "Who Knew?"  This really is a wonderful product, beautifully and discretely packaged and this will be something I continue to use in the future. Panty Fresheners and Feminine Wash provide daily freshness from odors. Panty Fresheners have a fresh and clean scent that lasts up to four hours. I was most excited about the Poise panty fresheners.

As my body seems to not be able to make up its mind if I am through menopause or not, these were great to try and keep on hand for a "just in case" moment. For most of my adult life, I have been pretty loyal to one or two products to help ease the unpleasantness of once a month accordance. After trying Poise panty liners, I was pleasantly surprised at how fresh and clean I felt and how easy they were to carry with me on the go. I would recommend trying these for yourself, I found the long liners gave me the extra confidence I needed to not worry about any mishaps during my day. The Feminine Wash provides daily freshness with a unique formulation that is pH balanced for your intimate area. Glycerin and paraben free, this gentle wash will help you feel clean and confident. I found the Feminine Wash pleasant to use and added the feeling of clean and refreshed during the days I needed a little extra. I myself, know I am not completely out of menopause yet, and honestly I don't know how many more years or months I will have to deal with this stage in my life. I often wish I had had a guide for what to expect and how to deal with things a couple of years ago. That would have explained a lot and I maybe would have done things a bit differently. I do know however, that no matter what the time frame will be for this stage to pass, I have found several products that will make the journey a bit easier.  Women can go to the Poise Facebook page to learn more about the Poise Feminine Wellness Line and sign up for a coupon or sample.

Now, since I have shared some rather personal life facts here about myself, I have to ask you all a question. “How are you approaching life's changes confidently?” Are you just trudging along like I found myself doing, or are you embracing the changes and marching forward? There is no right or wrong answer here, I just think it is a sensitive subject that many women could benefit from themselves by reading others experiences. Each comment will automatically be entered for a $100 Visa gift card.

 
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128 comments:

  1. I am kind of floundering along. Not really sure if I am in menopause yet or not. Some signs but not all.

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  2. I actually hope I am in menopause.... I have been experiencing the hot flashes for a bit now. I had about 6-9 months of super duper heavy menstruation that was very uncharacteristic for me and then the last month was two days of spotting and have been period free for two months now.... WOOOO HOOOOO! (I am nearly 49 by the way!) Recently - I would say in the last several months I have had a bit of a problem with sneezing and peeing... yep, this is a first....

    Sorry to be so specific - but I am pretty open and would really love to know if I am alone with these symptoms.

    I actually have been looking forward to getting through menopause. I am way over the menstruation part of my life and cannot wait to be done with that.

    I have upped my soy intake recently and have noticed that it has helped a little with the hot flashes.... Thanks for the space to discuss this and thank you soooo much for the product review. I am definitely going to check out those panty liners!

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  3. Good morning Suzanne, I came over to comment on yesterdays post because yesterday was so busy I didn't have time to visit. I didn't see my link and I was surprised that your linky was closed.
    Anyway, I enjoyed your info about the lovely tins. My sisters are always on the lookout for them to sell in their antique business. I love them too. Lucky you to find one.

    This Poise info is interesting. I read it on Penny's post yesterday. I hope that it helps anyone who is facing or in menopause. I am over it but struggled through without the aid of any meds. I was allergic to the meds and my Dr. would not give them to me.
    Sigh!!! Since my breasts were "severely" affected, he said I would have breast cancer if I continued on the meds. My sister actually had Estrogen related breast cancer, I believed him. She had to have her breast removed. This is a great share. Thank you.
    xo, Jeanne

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  4. Suzanne -- life changes came very early for me (age 25) and at a time when many of my friends were having babies and experiencing the wonders of change in a much different way. I frequently get people asking when are you having children and this has lead to some painful encounters. I have always had a very difficult time in being able to discuss my situation with others because most people either don't understand what I am talking about when I tell them I can't have children (and then some don't believe me). My doctors were baffled and at first they thought it was a reaction to medications that I had been taking to promote regulation in menstruation, eventually they pulled me off the meds and this didn't help the problem in ways it made things worse because now I I didn't feel that I had the support of anyone. I have the sneezing problem mentioned above and doctors just say it's just part of life for some women (mind you this is a lady doctor). I've tried the liners but those never worked as well as they should. I have lost a few relationships including a marriage because of pain associated with and generally shying away from intimacy. Trying out the lubricant is interesting to me as most of the things on the market are to oily or cause breakouts.

    thanks for posting this review. I may not be the person Poise had in mind for this product as a typical menopausal woman but I am defiantly going to be keeping an eye out for the products.

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    1. Katie.... so young to have to go through all of this. Both of my daughters have never been regular with their periods - in fact my oldest only had three by the time she was 25 years old. It can feel so lonely and when you are not going through the same experiences as your peers/friends - well that just amplifies that feeling.... You have got support here!!!

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  5. I'm mostly trudging along but I really like the way you have such a positive mind set and will try to think that way more often.
    Thanks so much.
    rickpeggysmith(at)aol(dot)com

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  6. I tweeted: https://twitter.com/peg42/status/320244334379298817
    Thanks so much.
    rickpeggysmith(at)aol(dot)com

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  7. I wake up every single day excited to tackle a new day and a new challenge.
    tamarsweeps-at-gmail-dot-com

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  8. I am taking vitamins and evening primrose oil to feel better

    elena150980@yahoo.com

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  9. https://twitter.com/ElenaIstomina/status/320280795619151872

    elena150980@yahoo.com

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  10. I am approaching life's changes confidently by staying positive, enjoying time with my family and staying healthy by walking and eating lots of fruits and vegetables.

    Kellywcu8888ATgmailDOTcom

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  11. tweet
    https://twitter.com/Kellydinpa/status/320295890252337152

    kellywcu8888ATgmailDOTcom

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  12. I'm mostly trudging along and accepting each day as it comes. I'm taking vitamins.

    mami2jcn at gmail dot com

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  13. tweet:

    https://twitter.com/mami2jcn/status/320311231556775938

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  14. twitted this today, 05/04
    http://www.twitter.com/myspotme

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  15. Think still in a bit of shock I went into early menopause. I had thyroid cancer, had surgery and radiation, then on suppression therapy. Apparently can happen but no Dr. ever said it to me. So just when we were talking about having a 2nd child my body quits an dries up -- literally. In a sad mode right now but trying to find my way out of it.
    tvollowit at aol dot com

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  16. I am fighting it as much as I can. Eating healthy and exercising as much as I can and having a positive attitude.

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  17. Tweet: https://twitter.com/dlhaley17/status/320366629152247810

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  18. I'm doing my best to not pay attention to the many changes and continue life as I am. No matter the changes, I'm still me.

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  19. I just take each day as it comes. I try to educate myself and stay as healthy as I can. I think I'm getting better every day.

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  20. Tweet
    https://twitter.com/clc408/status/320558400402509825

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  21. I am reading a lot and learning from those who have walked the walk before me.
    elysesw@aol.com

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  22. I just started having hot flashes and night sweats about 6 months ago. And migraines, which are terrible. So far I'm just muddling through and hoping this goes by fast. I need to check these Body Cooling Towelettes out.

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  23. tweet
    https://twitter.com/eswright18/status/320636962568560640

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  24. I am approaching life's changes with some concern, but I am eating right, getting a bit of exercise, really trying to take care of myself, to make the change easier.
    jslbrown_03 at yahoo dot com

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  25. 2nd entry tweet - https://twitter.com/LuLu_Brown24/status/320649418502201346
    jslbrown_03 at yahoo dot com

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  26. By simply rolling with the changes and doing what needs to be done to take care of any problems that come up :)

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  27. just found your blog through white lace and promises. I saw someone else preview Poise products yesterday...I am mostly through menopause but symptoms do come back every once in a while..some of these products look worth a try...

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  28. I try to walk at least 10,000 steps each day, eat lots of healthy food, especially veggies, and take a wide range of vitamins! I also consider aging a normal, albeit annoying, fact of life!

    skkorman AT bellsouth DOT net

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  29. Tweet: https://twitter.com/skkorman/status/320672946026844161

    skkorman AT bellsouth DOT net

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  30. I'm rolling with the changes and accepting them. I'm trying to eat healthy and exercise.

    s2s2 at comcast dot net

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  31. https://twitter.com/susan1215/status/320674067608911872

    s2s2 at comcast dot net

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  32. Even at my age I experience times when I could use any and all of Poise products. some more than others. Please enter me in the sweepstakes. Ginger

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  33. I am fine, so far. I had the night sweats 6 years ago and nothing since other than some light incontinence. I just hit 50 so I am sure the rest of menopause should be hitting me any time now. It's about the age my Mom started going through it. I just hope I handle it as gracefully.

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  34. I tweeted https://twitter.com/2BeFitBy50/status/320731304180187136

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  35. Seeing how hubby still looks at me makes me confident.

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  36. https://twitter.com/mkvegas/status/321009420542828548

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  37. I'm not quite there yet, but I'm trying to lose weight and eat healthier so that it will be easier when the time comes.

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  38. I'm not quite there yet but I will feel confident knowing there will be help out there with these products!!
    shiebs24[at]gmail[dot]com

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  39. my wife takes vitamins alot to feel good.
    gabbflabber@live.com

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  40. I try to stay consistent with exercise, and I dress in layers for those days when I'm hotter than usual!
    madelinebrubaker {at} gmail (dot) com

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  41. Tweet link: https://twitter.com/shala_darkstone/status/321775529420259329

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  42. I'm trying to eat better and work out as much as possible. Sometimes it's so difficult, and things come up, but I'm still trying! lol

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  43. It is important to maintain myself with fashionable (enough) clothing, a current hairstyle and makeup for my 56 year old body and to keep my weight under control (a horrible battle)

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  44. At first I tried different natural things but eventually they stopped working and now I just seem to deal with it or it is not as bad. Thank you for the giveaway.

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  45. I've tried to give in to it and accept what comes to me!Love Life!

    tamilynn59@yahoo.com

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  46. I'm not there yet and hopefully won't be for awhile, but I hope to face it the same way I do other big changes in life with a little bit of humor and a lot of love from those around me. onefrugalgirl AT gmail DOT com

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  47. By accepting life as it is and looking for positives
    Thanks! Janna JOhnson jannajanna@hotmail.com janna@feedyourpig on gfc

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  48. I keep up with daily exercises and have balanced meals to prepare for life's changes.

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  49. -https://twitter.com/tcarolinep/status/322566477985230849

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  50. by getting extra sleep and using positive affirmations! scg00387 at yahoo dot com

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  51. by getting extra sleep and using positive affirmations! scg00387 at yahoo dot com

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  52. https://twitter.com/DesMoinesDealin/status/322726756241006595 scg00387 at yahoo dot com

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  53. I'm approaching them with the knowledge that I've enjoyed life so far, so what if it gets a bit more complicated as I age :)

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  54. I always tell myself" We must be willing to let go of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us" stay positive
    merleandtina@yahoo.com

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  55. https://twitter.com/HappyTina0115/status/322830176029392898
    merleandtina@yahoo.com

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  56. I just walk forward with a smile on my face and say "Bring It On!!"

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  57. Thanks for the great giveaway! I try to remain confident and positive to accomplish things that seem impossible!
    annalana25@gmail.com

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  58. life changes are inevitable so all you can do is deal with it!

    debbiebellows (at) gmail (dot) com

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  59. tweeted here:

    https://twitter.com/bellows22/status/323478492241076224

    debbiebellows (at) gmail (dot) com

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  60. Trudging along....not wanting it to happen anytime soon!
    nuthouse(at)centurytel(dot)net

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  61. tweeted: https://twitter.com/KerryBishop/status/323551303714357248
    nuthouse(at)centurytel(dot)net

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  62. I'm gently trudging but need to put in more effort. :)

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  63. Support of my family makes it easier to go forward!

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  64. I'm not really sure what I'm doing! I don't know if the things I'm feeling are sings of menopause or not. I guess I need to start getting educated though!

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  65. I blogged http://sodahoney.blogspot.com/2013/04/poise.html

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  66. i'm just taking it one day at a time. Everyday seems to bring something new to my health. I'm hoping for this all to be behind me soon. Stay fresh and cool.

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  67. tweet
    http://twitter.com/mendyd/status/324049503604862976

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  68. Due to medications I zipped through menopause earlier than I would have normally. It was fast and not too bad - hot flashes were, however, a weird experience. Mainly - keep your sense of humor!
    adrianecoros(at)gmail(dot)com

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  69. https://twitter.com/LAMusing/status/324642212761718787
    adrianecoros(at)gmail(dot)com

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  70. I am dragging my feet and trying to ignore reality. I think it will get easier when I finally get some grandchildren to spoil. :)

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  71. I am trying to handle it the best that I can. I have a sister who went through it early due to cancer treatment. My mother had 7 kids and she doesn't really remember things about that too well because she still had young children. I have not had children and I had some health issues in the past that cause me not to be able to take HRT. I do go to my doctor when I feel that something is odd. I actually do acupuncture too (it has helped). I take it each day at a time.

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  72. I take changes as a growing experience and know that everything will get better!


    monicamezaa@yahoo.com

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  73. As I approach my 40s I'm getting more exercise and more calcium in my diet.
    aleksnearing gmail com

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  74. I realize that attitude is all about how you approach things in life and I am approaching change with a sense of excitement about this new phase of my life

    teechbiz at gmail dot com

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  75. here's my tweet

    https://twitter.com/thriftymaven/status/326443127655260160

    teechbiz at gmail dot com

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  76. Luckily, I had only few mild hot flashes but the pounds started to appear from out of nowhere! I have to work harder than before to keep them off.
    Your product review is terrific and I'll be looking for these in the store.

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  77. Got to say, the best way I can, a moment at a time.

    gmissycat at yahoo dot com

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  78. Tweeted here

    https://twitter.com/gmissycat/status/326995133625139200

    gmissycat at yahoo dot com

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  79. Tweeted here

    https://twitter.com/gmissycat/status/326995133625139200

    gmissycat at yahoo dot com

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  80. not full on menopause but definitely getting the hot flashes and sweats, what a blessing! tracietrump@yahoo.com

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  81. I'm doing one day at a time and learning what I can about menopause.
    MCantu1019 at aol dot com

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  82. I'm in menopause now, enjoying my nightly hot sweats-lol
    Diane Baum
    esldiane@gmail.com

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  83. I guess I'm just trudging along, I haven't hit menopause yet but I'm trying to keep healthy by eat more vegetables

    rtrexel@gmail.com

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  84. I’m trying to exercise and take my vitamins daily. I’m really trying to do better and stay healthy since I'm over 40 now.
    tweety800265(at)yahoo(dot)com

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  85. https://twitter.com/disneyfan40/status/328317273267916800
    tweety800265(at)yahoo(dot)com

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  86. I welcome change and understand my body is getting older and showing the mileage. so what?

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  87. I always look at everything as tomorrow will bring something new.
    dt9312@yahoo.com

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  88. I'm well past menopause and I didn't think it was too bad although my daughter tells me that my mood swings were extreme.

    My doctor prescribed some medication but I kept forgetting to use it so I finally just gave up and went cold turkey.

    willitara [at] gmail [dot] com

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  89. taking vitamins & exercising!!
    wendywynsma@gmail.com

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  90. I've grown to accept that my body has changed, but it has created so many things!
    onecheaplady@yahoo.com

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  91. I not there yet but i am getting older and my body can tell

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  92. https://twitter.com/purplelover04/status/328883730443816960

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  93. I'm honestly finding all of lifes changes very difficult but I'm trying to keep positive and motivated.
    lisalmg25 at gmail dot com

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  94. I Tweeted: https://twitter.com/lisalmg/status/328936178210467840
    lisalmg25 at gmail dot com

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  95. Just remember that every experience is a learning experience!

    phall0106 at yahoo dot com

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  96. I too and just taking it as it comes. I try to maintain a healthy lifestyle and love myself as I am.

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  97. I'm glad that I stumble upon your site. I'll keep reading. Thank you. ageexperts.net here

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  98. By keeping an open mind and trying my hardest to adjust!

    -Ashley Marie Morrissey
    ashummz05(at)yahoo(dot)com

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  99. Tweet: https://twitter.com/ashmo90/status/329086290438017024

    -Ashley Marie Morrissey
    ashummz05(at)yahoo(dot)com

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  100. i don't mind getting older except for jowls!! lol
    howardreviews atgmaildotcom

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  101. Go with the flow and live life to the fullest!!

    rachelmarietravis at gmail dot com

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  102. I just wake up not knowing what to expect, but going with it as it goes.

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  103. tweeted
    https://twitter.com/carolina_blu_/status/329253595755200514

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  104. Ugh...I hate hate hate aging. I never considered myself a vain person until I started seeing signs of getting older and I hate it. I hate that I am getting older and that I care so much about it! I am definitely not floundering but rather trying to cling to the last bit of my youth like a crazy person. LOL
    Angie
    14earth at gmail dot com

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  105. Ugh...I hate hate hate aging. I never considered myself a vain person until I started seeing signs of getting older and I hate it. I hate that I am getting older and that I care so much about it! I am definitely not floundering but rather trying to cling to the last bit of my youth like a crazy person. LOL
    Angie
    14earth at gmail dot com

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  106. I tweeted here: https://twitter.com/MsTofuFairy/status/329259674270580738
    Angie
    14earth at gmail dot com

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  107. I'm exercising as much as possible and learning to deal with the fact that not everything is under my control.

    pokergrl8 at gmail.com

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  108. I'm exercising as much as possible and learning to deal with the fact that not everything is under my control.

    pokergrl8 at gmail.com

    (sorry if this posts twices, i wasnt sure if my first comment posted)

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  109. https://twitter.com/aes529/status/329275838891696128

    pokergrl8 at gmail.com

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  110. I am trudging along in some areas especially with my body changing and metabolism slowing

    tbarrettno1 at gmail dot com

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  111. tweet
    https://twitter.com/ChelleB36/status/329282069815504896
    tbarrettno1 at gmail dot com

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  112. I am embracing the changes and just going with it! Life has it's ups and downs, it's what you do that makes it fun!

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  113. Just going with the flow.
    discriminating_diva at yahoo dot com

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  114. https://twitter.com/dddiva/status/329300539810656257

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  115. So far, I'm just going with the flow. it's been pretty good.

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  116. I swim 3 times a week and keep active with singing and volunteering. I could have used the Body Cooling Towelettes 10 years ago when I had my Power Surges.
    Thanks for the contest.

    slehan at juno dot com

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  117. https://twitter.com/slehan/status/329324004030693376

    slehan at juno dot com

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  118. I had every menopause symptom to the extreme - wish these products had been available then! So now that I'm past that, I love getting older. Stop worrying about it and enjoy all the benefits.

    mybeachylife at gmail dot com

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  119. Taking one day at a time and trying to eat right.

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  120. As I get older I am eating better and exercising more.
    rounder9834 @yahoo.com

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  121. https://twitter.com/thomasmurphy40/status/329409282065960960
    rounder9834 @yahoo.com

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